What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 03:37
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Why do I sweat so much after shower?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) đ
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
14~ When was the first time you said, âI Love Youâ? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
How do I build rapport with anybody?
85~ If you gave me a âfree Passâ to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
How do I deal with autistic burnout/meltdown/shutdown when cooking?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
7- Whatâs your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What are the psychological reasons behind an extreme obsession with another human being?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
1- Whatâs your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Is Matt Gaetz qualified to be Attorney General of the United States?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
1- Whatâs your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Have you been with a stranger yet?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
66~ Whatâs the shortest time itâs ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
19~ Who/when was your first âheartbreakâ?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Family Relation Age Play
What is your favorite underrated movie and why? What makes it underrated? How did you find it?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
42~ Whatâs your biggest regret in life?
Why are American university students fine with sharing a room?
Nothing too Serious
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
65~ Describe the best orgasm youâve ever had? Care to share?
17- Whatâs your favorite holiday? Whatâs your least favorite?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
15~ Have you ever been âin loveâ? Who? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything⌠Shave meâŚ
Get this wrong and this could mean the end⌠:-) some funny, some notâŚ
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
How old are you? Male or Female?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Donât be shy now, I really want to know.
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
How many times do you think you have âmade loveâ?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
85~ If I gave you a âFree Passâ for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
39~ What are your love languages?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
*** Whatâs Your FavoriteâŚ? ***
19- Whatâs your favorite fairytale? Whatâs your least favorite?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past⌠it got you two here togetherâŚ
3- Whatâs your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
14 â Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can âPASSâ and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship⌠You can learn a lot about the other person⌠and yourselfâŚ
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Any that are a turn off?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
5- Whatâs your favorite movie genre? Whatâs your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Any that are a turn off?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
40~ Whatâs the weirdest place youâve ever had sex?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? Whatâs your least favorite?
If yes, what?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Please share Did you stop?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
92~ Everyone needs a âsafeâ word. What is yours?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJâs when you are sleeping?
What is your favorite position? Why?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
13- Whatâs your favorite drink? Whatâs your least favorite?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
52~ What are your hobbies?
*** Questions About Me ***
6- Whatâs your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3âŚ
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
52~ Are you willing to make âthose typesâ of bets with your partner?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
4- Whatâs your favorite genre of music? Whatâs your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
2- Whatâs your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
18~ Who/when was your first âcrushâ?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
20- Whatâs your favorite candy? Whatâs your least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
29- How superstitious are you?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
I would allow you to do it⌠What would you do to me?
Would you read them together?
Do you prefer your partnerâs pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the momentâŚ
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
The Ice Breaker Questions
10- What is your favorite family tradition? Whatâs your least favorite?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
9- Whatâs your favorite season and why? Whatâs your least favorite?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
3- What was the most surprising thing youâve learned about me throughout our relationship?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Whatâs the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
9- Is there something youâve always wanted to ask me but youâre afraid?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Do you like the â69â position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
*** Random Questions ***
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
16- Whatâs your favorite vacation you have been on? Whatâs your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
12- Whatâs your favorite food? Whatâs your least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in âsoulmatesâ? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
14- Do you have a âDeal Breakerâ, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
If you win, what will you make them do?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couplesâ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETCâŚ)
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love LanguageÂŽ - The 5 Love LanguagesÂŽ
18- Whatâs your favorite way to relax after a long day? Whatâs your least favorite?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?